So You Think You Can Save My Marriage, Eh?
This site has been a LOOOOONG time in the making. As a matter of fact, our founder was so frustrated with his marriage, and divorce was so often on the table, that SAY DO GIVE nearly never happened.
The reality is that his marriage was ultimately saved because of the help of ideas from women when he asked, “Will you help me save my marriage?”. While there wasn’t anything magical about anything he would SAY, DO or GIVE to his wife in the coming months of reconciliation, there was magic found in the practice of expressing love in tangible ways. Not only did his wife feel loved again, he felt worthy to be a husband and a man who could show his wife love.
But it was more than just the marriage that was a stake. It was a family that included two kids (and a dog) that would forever be impacted. The motivation to make it work was there but the practical reality was a lack of knowing what to do, and the additional lack of discipline to treat the role of being a husband every bit as critically as that of father and employee.
The simple ideas our founder collected from the friends of his wife ultimately laid the footprint for this site, and proved that if a man could follow simple directions he could tear down the wall between he and his wife and start to once again communicate at a heart level – and only there can real healing be found.
Don’t be mistaken by believing that following SAY DO GIVE will undo and repair years of heartbreak in your marriage, because it won’t. You need good counseling to really get to the the heart of the matter. What you will find here, however, is actionable advice from women on how to make her feel special, and loved. And in making her feel those things again you’ll likely find a willingness to work together towards ultimate healing, and a marriage that stands the test of time.
Welcome to SAY DO GIVE… we’re here to help!