SAY DO GIVE only works because of the women who are willing to help
SUBMIT IDEAS and VOTE 4 FAVORITES
Idea Submission "Rules"
- 5 sentences or less
- Nothing flowery or overly emotional
- Must be something a guy would actually say
- Feel free to make a delivery recommendation (text, email, note or card, etc)
- Can be completed in 30 minutes or less
- Not embarrassing
- Can't always be a back rub
- $20 or less - You girls always say it's not about the money... time to prove it!
- Can be easily purchased at a gas station, drug store, convenience store, grocery store, or online (think Amazon.com)
- malls, boutiques and jewelry stores not recommended
While us men need your help in the worst way, if we're completely honest we need you to give us things we'll actually do. To that end, we've established a few ground rules. While you can suggest whatever you'd like, if your suggestion follows these ground rules we're pretty likely to actually do it. Note that we will, on occasion, ask for some CRAZY, BIG, LAVISH ideas for things like birthdays, anniversaries, etc. For now, we're looking for everyday simple ideas we can get moving on today!
Why We Exist
We desperately need your help! It turns out that while men love their wives they really stink at saying, doing and giving things that make their wives feel loved. We're not talking about birthdays or anniversaries or other obvious days to celebrate her (although we need help on those too!). We're talking about the little things in everyday life that we can SAY, DO, and GIVE that remind her that we're still "us", and we still think she's amazing!
So, we'd like to do a little SOCIAL EXPERIMENT. We'd like to crowdsource romance. Yep, crowdsource it... just like The Bachelor where all those people behind the scenes sit around together and come up with plans to make the Bachelor look like a romantic genius. So please tell us how your husband could make you feel special. Things like sending a random "I love you" text in the middle of the day, washing your car without you asking, or running out and buying you your favorite coffee on Saturday morning. Specifically, we'd like to know what things you'd like your husband to SAY, DO or GIVE that would make you feel loved. In return We've got a rapidly growing group of men who are taking advantage of the SAY, DO, GIVE romantic crowdsourcing by receiving your ideas by email or finding them on our website. Feel free to encourage other men to visit and subscribe!
NOTE: The ultimate goal for men is not to become dependent on the collective wisdom of women to be better husbands. Rather, the goal is to do something proactive that keeps our relationships with our wives top of mind and get in the habit of showing her we care in ways meaningful to her. The fact that it includes really good woman-sourced action-items is simply icing on the cake. The bottom line is that LOVE is a VERB, and us men need to DO SOMETHING. We think we speak for most men when we say, the problem is we've got no idea what to do!
How can you help? So glad you asked. Simply subscribe to our women-only email list... we'll send out occasional emails asking you to submit ideas and/or vote the best ideas submitted by other women to the top. That's it.